Cheap Bitches

From the day were born, boys and girls are sexually socialized. Boys are wrapped around in blue blankets and girls are rapped in pink blankets. These socialized stereotypes continue through our whole life, from young girls being told to play house, play with barbie dolls and act like a lady. To young boys on the other hand, being told to play with GI Joes, play war and told be strong and not to cry because boys aren't supposed to be weak and show emotion.

As we grow to become adults, we unconsciously become ok with our sexual socialization. Believe me, I love being a man and everything that comes with it. I love being in control, being in the position of power and knowing I can do anything without any opposition.

I may not like making more money than women who are just as qualified to doing my job. Or being given more of an opportunity to move up the corporate ladder then women do.

But this is the world we live in, as a man I have certain advantages and so do women. Unlike men, women have there advantages in the social arena. Women go out to bars/clubs and of course they expect to not drop a dime if they good in heels and a dress.

Believe me, I'm have no objection to these type of women because I've bought numerous women drinks or invited them to hangout at my table. However, what bothers me about this social norm, is its expected that when women go out they shouldn't have to pay for a damn thing just because they look good. Why not buy me a drink and give me a reason to talk to you and see why you're interesting and more then a pretty face.

As a man, I couldn't imagine going to a bar or club with not even $20 in my wallet and expect when I get their to have someone else cover my bill. I've meet numerous amounts of women who travel to Vegas and expect not to spend more then a $150. At least a $100 of which would be spent on hotel and food. When I go to Vegas I expect to drop at least $600.

Ladies I hate to tell you this but your looks won't last forever and you don't want to become that old bitch in the club one day! Theirs always that young 21 year one coming for your spot.

Unlike women, mens looks are not as important as we become older and we are not judged as heavily as women are. We are judged by our careers and how much $ we have in the bank.

So instead of depending on someone else's money to pay for your habits. Why not make your own money and be your own boss! Because there is nothing sexier then a chick who has her own money and doesn't need someone else's money to pay for her shit.

In the end, I think both men and women should not be judged by our looks or by how many

zeros we have in our bank accounts. Instead, we should all be judged by our intelligences

and what we bring and offer to the world.