As we grow to become adults, we unconsciously become ok with our sexual socialization. Believe me, I love being a man and everything that comes with it. I love being in control, being in the position of power and knowing I can do anything without any opposition.
I may not like making more money than women who are just as qualified to doing my job. Or being given more of an opportunity to move up the corporate ladder then women do.
But this is the world we live in, as a man I have certain advantages and so do women. Unlike men, women have there advantages in the social arena. Women go out to bars/clubs and of course they expect to not drop a dime if they good in heels and a dress.
Believe me, I'm have no objection to these type of women because I've bought numerous women drinks or invited them to hangout at my table. However, what bothers me about this social norm, is its expected that when women go out they shouldn't have to pay for a damn thing just because they look good. Why not buy me a drink and give me a reason to talk to you and see why you're interesting and more then a pretty face.
As a man, I couldn't imagine going to a bar or club with not even $20 in my wallet and expect when I get their to have someone else cover my bill. I've meet numerous amounts of women who travel to Vegas and expect not to spend more then a $150. At least a $100 of which would be spent on hotel and food. When I go to Vegas I expect to drop at least $600.
Ladies I hate to tell you this but your looks won't last forever and you don't want to become that old bitch in the club one day! Theirs always that young 21 year one coming for your spot.
Unlike women, mens looks are not as important as we become older and we are not judged as heavily as women are. We are judged by our careers and how much $ we have in the bank.
So instead of depending on someone else's money to pay for your habits. Why not make your own money and be your own boss! Because there is nothing sexier then a chick who has her own money and doesn't need someone else's money to pay for her shit.
In the end, I think both men and women should not be judged by our looks or by how many
zeros we have in our bank accounts. Instead, we should all be judged by our intelligences
and what we bring and offer to the world.
Thank you for the grammar lesson, but I was just writing and not writing a piece that would be published on the New York Times. Or else I would have took more time to check my spelling , etc.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I've been burned but who hasn't. We've all succeeded and failed in life. Thats what makes it life, we have our up and downs but those experiences make us who we are. Believe me, I meet my share of women. So I don't have a problem there. But I'll admit it I've been shut down but I still get mine. I can send you all the numbers of the girls who can speak on my behalf.
I know girls like intelligent men and men like intelligent women. All I'm saying is that they're those people (men & women) who don't care about nothing but those superficial things then someone's looks and the money they have. So don't sit here and tell me that you don't personally know or ever meet a girl who doesn't care about those things. I know not all men and women care about those things but a majority of them do. If you don't believe this, then you must very naive and live under a rock. Because we do live in a superficial world. However,there is a small percentage of us who don't care about those things. I've just speaking for my personal experience and this is my opinion.
So I don't need you telling me who I am and that I'm not intelligent. I've traveled the world, know about politics, got a double BA and working on getting my masters in Business Administration. So I know who I am and what I bring to the world. So I couldn't care less about what you think about me personally because your someone who doesn't have the courage to say who you are. At least I put myself out there and say what I feel. It may me make look stupid or an arrogant asshole. But at least I have the courage to say what I feel unlike someone who has anonymous screen name.